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Saturday, May 20, 2006 Just read Annie's Before & After post and she totally mirrors the much talked-about Motherly Love. Someone once told me that after a woman gives birth, there will be some hormonal changes and the said character will ooz motherly instincts. Perhaps this is what Annie is experiencing now. Honesly, I am really happy for her. I have not seen her for a long time and still feeling bad that I could not attend her baby girl's 1st month celebration. Anyway, back to Annie's post, I have never thought that she was a selfish girl before. She said that she would club every weekend and spend a lot of money on drinks. But well, don't we all? Especially in our younger years? We are only young once and try to experience all that we can. Yes, we only craved for fun then and might even have done crazy and silly things. But isn't that all part and parcel of life? Growing up, or so they said. As we mature, we change according to the circumstances. And since Annie highlighted her 'Before' and 'After', perhaps I should too. Before: I used to party at least twice a week and had no qualms on getting drunk. Impatient and wilful, I always wanted people to give in to me. Whenever anyone rebutt me, I will not fail to retort back ferociously. I was self-centred and thought that the whole world revolved around me. It was always ME, MYSELF and I. Also, I always expected my boyfriend to give in to me and was really demanding. Workwise, I would complain or grumble when things did not go my way too. Now: I still party, perhaps once a week. I don't see anything wrong with partying simply cos I love to dance. However, I have never gotten drunk for many years now and in fact, take good care of myself and friends at clubs. When people rebutt me now, I will pause for a while and ask myself what is wrong before I make my stand. Before I act on anything now, I will seek the opinions of friends and loved ones for objectivity. Many a time, I put my loved ones' priorities before my own. I can't remember when is the last time I am ever demanding to a boyfriend. Yes, I love to be treated as a princess but I have not been unreasonable for the longest time. In fact, I usually will accomodate and I believe in forgiving than to harbouring grudges. At work now, I do my best in whatever I can and fight the challenges to the end. Yes, there will always be difficulties at work but instead of complaining or grumbling now, I will rather find solutions. If I still fail to find a solution, I rather chill out over drinks with colleagues than to kill myself over it. And yes, this is the Jane now. Labels: Myself |